First of all, I don't know why there is speculation as to what really happened. The DMN report points out that they admit they got talked out of the ejections. Anybody that watched the game later that night on TV can tell exactly what happened. So, it did happen. So, yes, totally unacceptable!!

As far as the suggestion as to what's the harm because both coaches were happy, I don't know how to describe in how many ways that is wrong. What would you say, if the original gouger (after his reprieve) does it again, but this time does permanent damage to a kid's sight. Is your defense going to be, well, the coaches promised me they were going to clean it up, and they were both happy that I let them continue playing?
Bottom line is that there is no excuse for this. The crew should be repremanded by TASO, not rewarded (assuming they are working the championship). If not repremanded, then maybe there is something about accountability. OR is this different because the coaches are happy?