Back to the original topic of pet peeves, officials who apply what they want the rules to be rather than what the rules are. For instance, I had a dead ball targeting on a late hit out of bounds as the L in a JV game. I reported it to the R and he said, "Well, I don't think we need to toss him for it, so let's just call it unnecessary roughness." I protested and told him it wasn't up to us to decide and the rule is very specific that this is an auto dq. Of course being a younger official, I got the "I've been doing this X years and I'm not ejecting him from this game." That was the last game I ever worked with that official.