Bad officiating gave me the idea to get into it. This is what got my friend who's a Linesman into officiating back in the 90s, in his words: "If you want something done right, you do it yourself."
Actually 11 years in and that is (almost) also how I got started. We have a chronic shortage of officials and bad retention, and in a game were I was a player there were some major problems with some new officials.
So, after the game I went to the white hat and said basically 'You (the association) need as much help as you can get. How do I get started as an official'.
I guess the difference is that I didn't want to fix it - just help support them because they needed people.
As for football being better in 'the good ol days' - As someone who played for 18 years I don't think I agree. I look now at what I did then to my body - especially my head and realize I put my future self way at risk without understanding the consequences.
The new rules are changing what football is. Not making it better or worse, but trying to make it safer for people. Maybe more boring for (some) fans - but they have other options like boxing, MMX or car crashes to watch.