Like TXMike said in the chat room last night. The only way to make it consistent is to change the rule to, "If a player does ANYTHING, other than hand the ball to an official or place it on the ground, and then does not immediately go to his team huddle or team area it is a foul for UNS". That is the only way to take the judgement out of it. It removes all the grey area. I the the memo from RR said it best that there is no way to possibly write down every situation that should or should not draw a flag. Each official will have a different level of what is and what isn't acceptable. It's not much different than what two different officials view regarding other fouls. The problem that this "salute" has caused is that now it will get worse. The remaining games will have situations that are "huge" UNS fouls that won't get called and there will be even more outcry.
Jason, I agree with your earlier assessment that handing the ball to the official resolves all of this, but as a referee I worked with said, "We're not out there to be the fun Gestapo." Keeping this in mind, we must remember that the game is played and coached by people with emotional attachments to the game. This "spike" as it has been called, did not rise to the level of a foul as it was not the "wind up and throw down" we see on Sunday. If this would have been flagged, there would have been just as big an outcry. Make the foul call itself, and this one DID NOT. Would your supervisor want this called for UNS?
Someone commented in another thread about the difference between officials at the D2/3, and higher levels. The difference isn't always better officials in terms of rules, mechanics, performance, etc. This difference arises in training opportunities provided and the ability to manage a game. We can all post all of the clips from the various games we want and comment on what should have been or could have been, but ultimately, these guys are in this position because of other qualities, most beyond the control of others, but ability to use common sense ranks pretty high in my estimation.