The play from the first link is on Rogers' video this week. He didn't like the reversal either. I agree, this one should have been upheld.
Maybe it's time to consider altering this rule so that any Targeting calls stand as penalties and the DQ aspect is only applied after a post-game review. Then the DQ'ed player would be required to sit the next athletic event they're scheduled to participate in. This would allow the call to be made without fear from the official of being incorrect and depriving the team of their player for the rest of the game.