Regarding DQ:
In FL, the school's first DQ is (I believe) $100; then $250 (I believe) for each DQ that follows for the remainder of the school year - no matter what sport.
Additionally, the State will also make the DQ'ed person sit out between 1-6 weeks, depending on the severity.
For the most part, the school then passes the fine along to the offender & if the offender does not pay, they hold their records, etc.
I may be wrong, but I think that if a player DQed also means the Coach has to sit out at least a week too.
Per the State's statistics, last I saw boys soccer has the most DQ of any sport for FL.
Quite frankly, I don't really keep up with this stuff I cited. If someone is DQed, we write a report to the State & the State will hash it out with the School.