I don't know the "politics" of who assigns officials, why school officials can veto officials, what the role of the assigner, etc, etc. One thing I can't figure out though. Someone has to be the final authority for writing the rules, and ensuring that via the chain of command they are enforced.
I read comments on this site about we don't enforce certain rules. What are the consequences for a crew that enforces the rule? What are the consequences for asking the appropriate level of supervision to put in writing that certain rules are not to be enforced? When the rule was put in the book there had to be a reason? If it's not enforced then either remove it or put out a letter saying that the rule is in the book and must be enforced.
Where would you draw the line regarding uniform rules?